I started masturbating at a young age maybe age 8 or 9 and was always able to achieve orgasm. When I turned 16 I became sexually active and since then I haven't been able to achieve the same thing since rather it be during sex or masturbation. I can get close sometimes but it feels like I get half of an orgasm never the full thing like I used to it's as if I hit a brick wall and boom it's gone. It's very frusterating and I don't understand why I stopped even being able to get one during masturbation. I started taking birth control 3 months after starting to have sex so I thought mabe that had affected me but I have been off it now for a month and have not seen any change. Please help do you know of any reasons why this could have happened? Thank you

As i would advise you. never let sex or masturbation become a routine. do not do it on fixed days of the week of month. don't count it neither over do it.
It is to be done when felt like .
A relaxed mindset if very important as it helps the normal hormonal activity.
Good Nutrition is also very important.
there are certain aphrodisiac food stuffs which increase sexual potency and desire. find out about them. E.g Chocolate, Bananas, lot more. Chocolate is considered a very good aphrodiasic foodstuff for women.
While having sex try different positions to get the right pleasure.
there are many more things to say. let me know if you liked part of this..

The more sex you have, the more you become desensitized to what turned you on. After having sex, masturbation is not going to seem as appealing as it did before. Similarly, sex becomes more mundane as you get used to it. This isn't abnormal, its just like any other activity in life. The more exposure you have, the more the novelty wears off. Things will still turn you on, of course, but you may find that you have to go to greater lengths for your attraction to take control. Try to explore what exactly turns you on and try to build around that. You don't have to go too far. Giving yourself some time to miss sex will alone make your attraction grow. The trick is to delay gratification and let your desire build. Switch things up to keep things fresh and explore deeper levels of your sexuality if you prefer (not too deep though, it's important to stay grounded).

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